Erotic massage overview for the “first timers” – what should you expect from it?

Have you ordered an erotic massage (or have you been gifted one), your session is quickly approaching and you’re unsure what to expect and prepare for? The following tips will hopefully help you navigate around the exciting world you’re about to enter…

Before you go get your erotic massage…

  • Make sure you’re properly acquainted with the type of service you’ve chosen, and know what you can and can’t expect from your masseuse. Not all erotic massages offer the same degree of stimulation, so know what you can afford to ask from your masseuse to avoid any eventual embarrassment.
  • There’s no need for a special physical preparation, but you shouldn’t arrive with an overly full stomach, and you should neither smoke nor drink alcohol before you go in. Check out some more rules to abide by when getting a rubdown.
  • If you suffer from some sort of skin irritation, sunburn, cuts or wounds, it would perhaps be better to reconsider or reschedule your visit, since intensive physical stimulation could make these conditions worse.
  • Similarly, if you’re taking any prescription meds, it’s better to consult your doctor whether it’s advisable to get this sort of massage.
  • Maintain a proper hygiene. Though you’ll be getting a shower before the massage starts, make sure you come in clean and well-groomed to make a good first impression anyway!
  • Be on time, don’t rush there, and relax.

When you arrive…

You will be met and greeted by the masseuse of your choice, have a quick chat to break the ice and to make you relaxed and chilled out. If you have any medical issues, health issues or mobility issues, this may be the right time to divulge them. Also state your expectations and what you aim to achieve with your massage and how erotic do you wish it to be. But keep in mind you’re not in a brothel, so don’t expect any sex to happen! The service will be mostly limited to a happy ending – a term you’re perhaps acquainted with already.

Right before you start…

You’ll be asked to undress and take a shower. If you desire so, you may often be allowed to go in the shower together with your masseuse, but if you prefer more privacy, that’s OK as well. You’ll also be given a robe or a towel if you wish to cover yourself as you enter the massage room. Your masseuse will give you some time to prepare yourselves, after which you’ll lie stomach down on a comfortable massaging mattress, with a towel to cover your buttocks – or without it, if that’s what you want.

The fun begins…

What will follow generally depends on the type of massage you’ve chosen beforehand – whether it’s tantric, Hawaiian, nuru, classical erotic or anything else. Either way, you can expect ample use of aromatic massaging oils, and anything from gentle strokes and kneads by hand to a full body to body stimulation. As opposed to a regular massage, you can look forward to your private parts being stroked and caressed, up to a final orgasm – but make no mistake, the rest of your body will get its due as well! Don’t forget to communicate your desires, but also don’t be ashamed to say it if you find something to be too uncomfortable – everything should be tailored to fit you and you only.

When all is said and done…

You’ll be given a few moments to compose yourselves, take a final shower and dress up. It’s advisable to drink a glass of water, since the increased blood flow from this procedure can result in a slight dehydration. Afterwards, you’re free to pay up, say goodbye and be on your way home. It’s also important to have the rest of the day free to process and enjoy the benefits of your massage without rushing directly back to work or to your responsibilities.

Now you should have a clearer overview of what to expect from your first visit at your erotic massage parlour of your choice.We wish you a happily spent time there!

Are you a frequent visitor ofsensual massage parlours? What tips would you personally give to people new to this sphere? What does help you relax and what would you recommend in preparation for a sensual rubdown? Leave a comment below!